by Erika Leonard, Kidpower California Program Director | May 29, 2012
Find out how internal “screens” can protect our feelings, our hearts and minds, from hurtful words can also help us stay focused on making choices that build stronger relationships. Kids, teens, and adults who imagine these “safety screens” can still notice the mean words that people say, but they can be aware of those words without letting the words inside where they could hurt and also where they can get stuck. The awareness of the problem is one kind of fresh air that helps people stay centered and think about how to solve the problem. The mean words themselves, they’re like the bugs – they stay outside.
by Erika Leonard, Kidpower California Program Director | May 29, 2012
Understanding the difference between tattling and telling is a big part of being safe, because telling to get help with problems is important, but tattling is hurtful, and it makes problems bigger.
by Erika Leonard, Kidpower California Program Director | May 29, 2012
Learning to endure unwanted physical affection is not a safe life habit. By respecting others’ boundaries, you have the power to support the development of those skills and also strengthen the trust and the affection in your relationship.
by Erika Leonard, Kidpower California Program Director | May 29, 2012
By looking around and noticing things closer to the level of our own eyes, we’re much more likely to notice potential problems earlier. By noticing early, we can take action to prevent problems and stay safe, making our odds of having a good day go way up.
by Erika Leonard, Kidpower California Program Director | May 29, 2012
The word ‘danger’ and the word ‘stranger’ are both important in making safety plans – it’s good to avoid danger, and stranger safety habits help prevent problems. It’s too bad that they rhyme, though, because we’ve been really quick to stick them together, and putting these rhyming words together gives them power they don’t deserve to have over how we think and how we feel.
by Erika Leonard, Kidpower California Program Director | May 29, 2012
Tools work best when we match the tool to the problem that we’re facing. This is true for hand tools like hammers and screwdrivers, and it’s true for safety tools, as well.
by Erika Leonard, Kidpower California Program Director | May 29, 2012
When we’re triggered or exploded with any feeling – like sadness, fear or anger – it’s hard to think clearly and make wise choices for ourselves. Next time you’re angry and ready to give someone an electronic piece of your mind, think first!
by Erika Leonard, Kidpower California Program Director | May 29, 2012
This episode talks about how to use your “Internal Safety Alarm,” one of the best tools for noticing, preventing, or dealing with possible problems early, before they grow between friends, family members, and others. Understanding this tool supports better school experiences, too!
