by Irene van der Zande, Kidpower Founder and Executive Director | Nov 8, 2019
The holiday season is a time when many people make plans to get together with family and friends – some gathering close by and some traveling quite far – to celebrate and share togetherness, traditions, giving, gratitude, and joy. So, why do some people seem to dread the holidays? Dwelling on past personal conflicts, differences […]
by Irene van der Zande, Kidpower Founder and Executive Director | Sep 24, 2019
After a Seniorpower workshop, an elderly woman, “The most valuable thing I learned was that our safety is more important than uncomfortable feelings like anyone being embarrassed, bothered, or annoyed. I wish I had known this sooner!” I understand, because I feel the same way! As I look back, there were too many times in […]
by Irene van der Zande, Kidpower Founder and Executive Director | Sep 17, 2019
Kids as young as six have asked us, with their adults at their side, “What if someone starts shooting people here?” We answer them, so the adult and child both experience a response that is confident and not fearful. At the same time, we are heartbroken that ANY child ever has to wonder about this. […]
by Irene van der Zande, Kidpower Founder and Executive Director | Sep 10, 2019
Over and over, parents and teachers, and other caring adults tell us, “Every new tragedy in the news breaks my heart. How can I take care of my own feelings while protecting my kids?” It is normal to have overwhelming feelings or grief in the face of news about tragedies caused by violence, natural disaster, […]
by Irene van der Zande, Kidpower Founder and Executive Director | Sep 3, 2019
Many years ago, I was teaching a child protection workshop for about 100 parents after there had been a case of abuse in their community. One mother raised her hand and said plaintively, “I am so TIRED of being afraid! WHEN I can I stop being worried about the safety of my daughter?” I smiled […]